Updated: Jan 23
Bathroom Floor Moment
That critical moment where you are crying asking yourself what you are doing with your life. Everything seems to be falling around you.
This is often a huge turning point, you can fall into a pit of despair or look for a way to change your life for the better.
Do you see others around you looking joyful and fulfilled? Ask them how and why?
Personal Development and Meditation
Begin the process of bettering yourself. Look for a different way of living. What are you passionate about? What comes naturally to you?
Oftentimes we are being forced into someone else's idea of who we should be. We may not even realize it. As we grow we are taught various things about what path in life we should take. What is acceptable or unacceptable. It is time to find out who YOU are, not who others think you should be.
You are in the Drivers Seat
Do not let others dictate your life. If you do, your life will not be filled with the joy that comes when you are in alignment with what brings you happiness. You don't need to be famous, but find out what makes you tick. As the hard questions and work towards change. Shed the pieces of you that are not truly you.
It is like forging a diamond from coal. It's hard work and there will be pressure. In the end, it will be worth it!
Do Not Limit Your Potential
You create your reality. If you think you are not enough, you will never rise to the occasion to prove to yourself that you are. You do not need X, Y, Z to be successful, you can create a new path. This can be scary because it is unknown territory but the result will be worth it.
It is okay to struggle, to question yourself. That is only natural during the growth process. But ground yourself in the knowledge that you are doing your best and you are working towards bettering yourself. This will not happen if you live a stagnant life.
Ask yourself: "What is the worst that can happen?" Are you going to die? If not, maybe give it a shot.
Send that scary email.
Message that influencer and ask for advice.
Hit up that guy you like.
Apply for that job and dress for the part.
Find The Lesson
Even if you fail, or you make a mistake. That is OKAY! The main thing is to find the lesson in it all. The definition of insanity is to do the same thing over and over expecting a different result. Break the pattern, if something isn't working, it's time to learn and try a new approach.
Surround Yourself With Inspiring People
Find a tribe of people who are working towards being the best version of themselves. Look for mentors who are doing what you want to do. When you are a part of a community that empowers and inspires you, it makes taking on new challenges a whole lot less intimidating. They may also give you advice you never thought of before.
Money Isn't The Enemy
It is okay to want to make money, and make lots of it! How did that sentence make you feel? Did your stomach turn a little? Ask yourself why?? What beliefs have been instilled in you in regards to money?
Money often allows you to do what you love. It is a fantastic tool that you can use to help others. Money is not evil, it is not the enemy. Yes, there are some terrible people who happen to have wealth. But that does not mean that in order to be wealthy you must follow suit.
Start practicing the mantra "Money is easily flowing to me all the time."